Privacy & deletion

Your answers, your control.

• Your answers are visible only to you while you're answering. Your partner can never see them before you have both submitted.
• Once you have BOTH submitted, your answers — including sensitive intimacy answers and written reflections — become visible to your partner in your shared results.
• Every sensitive question offers "Prefer not to disclose". That's a complete answer and is never penalized.
• Your answers are never sent to any outside AI service, and we don't use third-party analytics that capture answers. All scores are calculated by fixed, documented rules.
• Invitations use long random links that the person who started can revoke and replace at any time before the partner joins.
• You can pause sharing at any time, which locks the shared results for both of you.
• You can permanently delete your answers and account from "Our space". If the person who started the experience deletes it, the whole shared experience is removed.

To delete your data, sign in and open Our space → "Delete my answers and account".